Romantic dates are so hyped. We see someone, get that tingly soul feeling and think “Sure let’s drink coffee together and see if we enjoy it!” Do you ever go somewhere though, see a woman who is just passionate, smiley, radiating great energy and wish you could be best friends? I do, allll the time. Can we please, PLEASE normalise asking potential besties to go on dates too? Like, dates but for gals who want to bond over their ambitions, skincare routines and dating fuckboys?
Sometimes we’re just not in a romantic date headspace but YASSS I would love to go for lunch with the gal I met in that clothes shop the other day, or that girl I sat next to a couple of times in school but we were in different groups, and let us not forget the girl I follow on Insta who has the funniest captions and most iconic style. We all have so many imaginary girlfriends, why is it weird to make the first move with them? Why are we all pining over romantic dates when we’re missing out on building some lifelong friendships and pink gin dates?
We’re all evolving our crew as we get older and life moves on, so I think it’s totally necessary for us to put ourselves out there in order to do this. Some energies we are just drawn to. That gal you’re afraid to message might be your latest hype gal, your ride or die. And some amazing women may need your message today, we never know what is going on in other people’s lives.
Hype your old gals, hype your new gals, like their pics, ask where they got their dress, invite them for coffee, grow and evolve, be inspired by their energyyyy. Tonic or lemonade with your pink gin, hun?